My wife and I have been married for just over 5 years. We have been talking about bringing another person into the bedroom to spice things up a bit. Also I want to bring a woman in but she wants to bring in a man.

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Sexual intimacy is meant to be an enjoyable experience that draws you and your partner closer together. But when sex becomes painful, you may find yourself doing anything and everything just to avoid it. This fairly common problem — three in four women experience pain during sex at some point in their lives — can usually be resolved with the right approach. Dyspareunia, or frequent pain during intercourse, involves feeling pain at any point just before, during, or following sex. This pain may affect part of your vagina, or you may feel it in your pelvic region, lower back, uterus, or bladder. Some women feel pain only during sexual penetration, while others feel discomfort even when using tampons.
When Sex Is Painful
While she says the two have always had a great sex life, this is the first time they've moved beyond just talking about bringing in a new partner. In the past few decades, threesomes have moved from dirty taboo to wild fantasy commonly considered a male-driven one to a fun diversion for committed couples. As cultural attitudes toward sex, sexual identity, and relationships change, three-ways are less "something you saw in porn" and more "something you talk about at brunch. Threesomes used to be typically portrayed as two women and a guy, but the taboos around two guys and a woman are falling away. On Broad City , Ilana's been gunning so hard for a threesome with best friend Abbi that we'll almost feel bad for her if the series ends without it happening. If it's possible to 1 ask Martha Stewart if she's had a threesome and 2 have her coyly reply, "Maybe," we may have truly reached Peak Threesome.
Pain during intercourse is very common—nearly 3 out of 4 women have pain during intercourse at some time during their lives. For some women, the pain is only a temporary problem; for others, it is a long-term problem. The internal female reproductive organs and the external female genitals. Pain during sex may be a sign of a gynecologic problem, such as ovarian cysts or endometriosis. Pain during sex also may be caused by problems with sexual response, such as a lack of desire the feeling of wanting to have sex or a lack of arousal the physical and emotional changes that occur in the body as a result of sexual stimulation. You may feel pain in your vulva , in the area surrounding the opening of your vagina called the vestibule , or within your vagina. The perineum is a common site of pain during sex. You also may feel pain in your lower back, pelvic region, uterus, or bladder. If you have frequent or severe pain during sex, you should see an obstetrician—gynecologist ob-gyn or other health care professional. It is important to rule out gynecologic conditions that may be causing your pain.