Sunday is considered sacred by Mormons, and they do not undertake any entertaining or outdoor activities that result in spending, on that day. I've had a super hard time finding folks who understand what I am feeling I have been married to an orthopedic surgeon for 35 years. And what is even worse, is to think of him alone in our house Christmas Day while I work a 24 hr in-house call shift. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. Yet others are really great human beings. My wife and her family are a good example of this. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. There are times where u will go to events, parties And even spending holidays without him. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort.
Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple. Indeed, it is the loneliness and the lack of time to have intimacy or feel connected with one another that scares me for our future.